Wow, sounds like a tough time, but then you're tough, too. The only good thing I can think of: When you have troubles in the future you can say, "It's not that bad. Let me tell you about the time I almost died and our house nearly burned down...and...and...and...." Hang in there. I'm nearby so call if you need anything.
The older I get the more I would rather be considered a good man than a good fisherman.